I decided to break away a little bit from the music on this one but I'm sure music will probably tie its way into somehow. I wanted to address the area of companionship or friendship.
Relationships are important. They are constituted through family, co workers, friends, lovers, and yes even enemies. We communicate our being either verbally or non verbally. Most common communication is verbal communication, but even through non verbal communication things are very strongly interpreted and perceived. Relationships in general are a form of expressing ourselves to others because people want others to know what they mean, want, or are saying. Family is where our relationship in communicating to others and how we feel or what we mean begins. It depends on our culture, our learned values, our small communities, and how we were raised that influences how we grow into other relationships outside our families and communities.
We then go on to form friend relationships, love relationships, work relationships, and business relationships throughout our lives. Each different relationship holds different importance and meaning to us as they continue to grow and develop even further. There is also a stage of unwanted attention on different levels of each type of relationship, but for now I'll be very general and broad for purposes of being relatable. At certain points in a relationship, if it ever takes a dramatic turn from growing to slowing down, then most likely there are some internal issues that may be going on that aren't truly being expressed. In this case, the relationship will start to feel different and you'll notice these changes as it continues to go on. This is not to say something is terribly wrong, but its merely a transition to the things you felt good about, are now transitioning either on your end or the other persons end. This can be because of a variety of things from reaching a turning point, not seeing things the same, wanting something different that you don't see that is happening, or just seeing interest in other things. These things are perfectly normal because we are all human, but I think that the communication must always be upfront and honest regardless.
The reason we enter relationships is because of a desire to communicate certain things and achieve desired results, whether that be in the form of happiness or satisfaction. In a friendship its usually companionship. In a love relationship its usually the desire to feel wanted or needed. In a work relationship, its the purpose to complete our jobs and earn a living. In a business relationship, its to network and keep career options open in the future. When people less desire us for any reason in any one of these different relationships, it then becomes unwanted attention to a certain extent. But don't jump too far ahead on this one, I'm only applying the change from one extreme to the next and its not always the worse thing. If you've ever heard of the law of attraction, these things are true for us in all facets of our lives. We are constantly attracting things into our lives by our way of thinking and our thoughts, even unintentionally.
Unwanted attention is usually a sign that indicates within ourselves where our relationship is. Like I mentioned earlier, unwanted attention is not always bad and in some cases it guides us to what the relationship means and how to either adjust or transition to a different level. Also, it is good not to view things in a negative aspect because that will take away from the positivity you do have. If you are feeling unwanted attention in any kind of relationship, try to figure out why its happening and always communicate your thoughts in a positive manor. Always be honest with yourself and see what things you can contribute to either improve or elevate your situation. Relationships change all the time, either for the better or to indicate that you've reached a certain point where it can't continue benefit you on that level any more. Be mindful and wise, as it is you who also contributes to the energy of the relationship.
I hope this has helped in some way and these are only my personal opinions and information that I've provided. There is a wealth of information available to us so tap into your sources. I hope you enjoyed the read and I'll leave you with a song!!
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"Hold You Down" prod by Pusher Productions
Lost Tapes - "Hold You Down" by Pusher Productions
Relationships are important. They are constituted through family, co workers, friends, lovers, and yes even enemies. We communicate our being either verbally or non verbally. Most common communication is verbal communication, but even through non verbal communication things are very strongly interpreted and perceived. Relationships in general are a form of expressing ourselves to others because people want others to know what they mean, want, or are saying. Family is where our relationship in communicating to others and how we feel or what we mean begins. It depends on our culture, our learned values, our small communities, and how we were raised that influences how we grow into other relationships outside our families and communities. We then go on to form friend relationships, love relationships, work relationships, and business relationships throughout our lives. Each different relationship holds different importance and meaning to us as they continue to grow and develop even further. There is also a stage of unwanted attention on different levels of each type of relationship, but for now I'll be very general and broad for purposes of being relatable. At certain points in a relationship, if it ever takes a dramatic turn from growing to slowing down, then most likely there are some internal issues that may be going on that aren't truly being expressed. In this case, the relationship will start to feel different and you'll notice these changes as it continues to go on. This is not to say something is terribly wrong, but its merely a transition to the things you felt good about, are now transitioning either on your end or the other persons end. This can be because of a variety of things from reaching a turning point, not seeing things the same, wanting something different that you don't see that is happening, or just seeing interest in other things. These things are perfectly normal because we are all human, but I think that the communication must always be upfront and honest regardless.
The reason we enter relationships is because of a desire to communicate certain things and achieve desired results, whether that be in the form of happiness or satisfaction. In a friendship its usually companionship. In a love relationship its usually the desire to feel wanted or needed. In a work relationship, its the purpose to complete our jobs and earn a living. In a business relationship, its to network and keep career options open in the future. When people less desire us for any reason in any one of these different relationships, it then becomes unwanted attention to a certain extent. But don't jump too far ahead on this one, I'm only applying the change from one extreme to the next and its not always the worse thing. If you've ever heard of the law of attraction, these things are true for us in all facets of our lives. We are constantly attracting things into our lives by our way of thinking and our thoughts, even unintentionally.
Unwanted attention is usually a sign that indicates within ourselves where our relationship is. Like I mentioned earlier, unwanted attention is not always bad and in some cases it guides us to what the relationship means and how to either adjust or transition to a different level. Also, it is good not to view things in a negative aspect because that will take away from the positivity you do have. If you are feeling unwanted attention in any kind of relationship, try to figure out why its happening and always communicate your thoughts in a positive manor. Always be honest with yourself and see what things you can contribute to either improve or elevate your situation. Relationships change all the time, either for the better or to indicate that you've reached a certain point where it can't continue benefit you on that level any more. Be mindful and wise, as it is you who also contributes to the energy of the relationship.
Click here to listen
"Hold You Down" prod by Pusher Productions
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